Other Comments: I met this man on Match.com and struck up an online relationship which him. He reports he is a freelance structural engineer who works from home. At the time I started to talk with him was bidding for a contract to build an oil rig in Iraq and was travelling to Krakow, Poland to present his designs. He reported that he was successful and travelled to Iraq in January 2014 for 6 - 8 weeks but he has since this time asked me for money because he hasn't been able to use his credit card. Strangely he asked me to send him money to a Mr Olonagabu Smith in Poland.
James Paul's story is that he was born in Spain of a Spanish mother and English father. His mother died about 8 years ago when he moved to UK. He married but found his wife in bed with his best friend who was also his lawyer and following divorce moved to Kent in 2010.
I have however also found him on Mingle2.com where he used the name Canibthatspecialman, the same name he used on Match.com but this time he was living in Bradely International, Ca. His profile has been removed from both Match.com and Mingle2.com and I have tracked his IP address to Washington State.