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I met this guy in And from his profile he sounds good then we exchange emails, but finally I found he never ask my questions in his email and only copy some love letters to me every time. And finally He asked for my address and phone number.

And below is his emails to me:
1st email

Hello ,
I'm very glad to read from you, it will be my pleasure to meet you in person soon, I believe in every relationship there most be a starting point, which make us to know each other.... and it's really my desire to know you very well and we become best friends. My name is Smith Anderson 39yrs old. I'm from a family of four, I'm Marine Engineer and I work with Marine Company here in London, I will tell you more about me and my family as time comes, yeah i have been japan, Malaysia and Thailand I love traveling because I'd like to get to know something new every minute, every second. I'm always ready for new emotions and feelings. I like adventures and I think our life would be boring without them. Also I love music, reading, relaxing, and movies. I love to spend my free time with my friends. I feel my life is very interesting. I try to make it interesting. I think that it depends on us..... I'm really into trying to appreciate what it is that I have in life. I am the happiest man when I know that what I do is the right thing for me, from my heart. I enjoy being mentally and physically active, I love doing almost anything outside. I like to be in the fresh air. I love to laugh and see humor all around me. I am a happy and fun loving person but I would like to find that special person to be able to share and to have fun with. I'm warm, sensitive person who is always open to new ideas. I'm romantic and love sunsets and candle during dinners, but you can't fully appreciate them unless you have the right person to share them with. I'm looking for a tender and emotional woman. She should care about me and feelings. I'm ready to share my life with such woman... I'm ready to be a serious husband and love my wife. Our life is a zebra; it has dark moments and light moments. When you are on a dark side you are unhappy and give up and when you are on the light side of your life you want to live and never die, because life is so good for you. I want to find a woman like you who will be near me during all times, when I am on the dark side or light side, it doesn't matter, and she will be always besides me, the same with me. I will be always with her, we will support each other and never let each other be sad or unhappy. Please, take good care of yourself and your job, eat very well, don't stress yourself too much, always find time to rest and be happy all the time.

2nd email

How was your day? I hope everything is well with you and your family. I'm very Excited to read from you. I want to tell you that this love dose not mater about your race, culture or religion. I hope with time we have to understanding each other, and i will plan to visit you in country for self introduction.

Dear, I was just thinking about us this morning and I decided to go on my computer to email you, in fact I really thought about lot of things concerning us and our previous conversation, before writing this email I really had a lot of things in my heart to tell you but it was quit unfortunate that when I got on my computer to write to you, I got lost of words and really don't know what to write or how to put my heart intention in write, but I will just try my best to explain.
I really don't know what has been going on with me since last night, I have been thinking so much about you all this while, all this may sound strange to you due to the fact that we have not met each other and we are just new to each other but I want to let you know that I really care about you,

I wish you can understand how I really feel right inside me, sometimes I use to think about the best way to let you know how I really feel about you, do you really know how it feels when something is right?, that is how I really feel about you, I feel that we are right and perfect for each other. I really hope that I could have the chance to make a way into your heart so as to let you know that I really care about you and to prove my love.

Love is a great gift and we cannot control it when it is real, I understand that it might seems to early to tell you all this but I have to let you know them, I really care about you and I am falling in love with you and this is true.
Please take good care of you and I hope we can talk again soon, Have a nice day.

3rd email

I read your mail with joy thank you, What more can a man says to the woman who opened her heart to him, allowing him to feel the warmth of her love across the great distance that separates them? You truly have no idea what I feel for you. I try to put this feeling into words, but fail miserably. This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about. As the days continue to pass, my love for you continues to grow. I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I love you right now. Yet, my love for you continues to mature, growing beyond the realm of my heart. It seems that you have become the fiber of my soul, the very reason for my existence. I'm usually not the kind of person that would write a love letter, but I thought I’d do this for you because you are the most wonderful thing in my life right now. I know we're far apart but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much. I need you to know I am with you through everything, the bad and the good. I've given you my heart and I hope that you won't break it. Keep it and give it some loving from time to time. Remember when I promised you that I'd never let you down, that I’d never treat you bad, that I would share your joy and pain? I will promise all those things over and over again. I promised I'd be coming over to meet with you soon.
Love always,

4th email

I am every happy to read from you, I have a wonderful days because I take my time think more about you. Since day one we've shared something incredible, something that most people only dream of. I had been searching for you all of my life. You have made me the happiest I have ever been. You are sincere, caring, loving woman, and I wouldn't trade you for the world. I am so thankful and blessed that you loved me as much as I loved you, and that you made me your husband. We have not been met, and I have cherished every moment since the day we being started writing to each other. I love you more and more everyday. Thinking about our future fills me with anticipation and excitement. We make the perfect husband and wife team, and I cannot wait to make it happen so soon, and hopefully a baby boy one day. We are going to have an amazing life together raising a family. All of our dreams are coming true, baby! Our life together is already amazing, and together it will only get better and better. I will forever be grateful that you came into my life and made all my dreams come true. Together we're perfect, and I will enjoy enjoying spending the rest of my life with you. I love you more than words can say. Honey I had an emergency alert this week and I will be flying to Ireland My Company was awarded a contract by the Ireland government so I will be back in few weeks time. Last weekend I went for shopping with family members and i bought some presents (gift) for you i will send it to you today before travelling to Ireland. Note: give me your postal address and your contact phone number in your next reply, to enable me post it.
Forever Yours,

5th email

My love

I am doing good hope you are doing the same. Secretly you have taken each broken piece of my heart from all those before you and put it together like a puzzle. Our troubled times were those of which my heart was not put completely together, but once the last piece was placed, that was when I realized I can't live without you.

You are a great woman and I just can't imagine a day without you. When you are not here I see you, I smell you, I feel you, I miss you!!!

I lay awake at night, sometimes, and I cry 'cause I miss you so much. I know that we can't change the past, and I know that we can't predict the future, but my heart does not lie ... I am so in love with you. I met you few weeks on the Internet, and since that time, I have grown to love you so deeply. I have heard it said that online romances don't last, but I disagree.. I know that what we are doing may be considered wrong by some, but I also know what I feel in my heart, and I know that it's real.

Give me your postal address and your contact phone number in your next reply, to enable me post them, because no need keeping it here since i have made the purchase no need keeping it.

Love always,


I dont know why he asked for my post address but I am 100% sure he is a scammer!

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2009-12-15, 04:45:21
anonymous from Thailand  
Hi guys,

I've got this number from this Jerk from Myspace as well.
I'm lazy to play with him, so if you want this is his profile, detail :


The messages are such similar, I just told him to go to hell, how can we avoid from those Jerks!!

2009-12-16, 05:53:57
Miss Marple from Sweden  
2009-12-15, 04:45:21
anonymous from Thailand

Im sorry the profile was deleted,so we cant know who

this person was ,but surely it was an scammer,you know

it cant be just an coincidence after you repporting him here

to Delphi this profile that it dissapears almost immidiately.

[ 447031859622 ]

That phonenumber is to United Kingdom but Nigerian scammers

have an special trick to confuse theire vistims that they use cell-

phone numbers that look like as they were calling from United Kingdom

wrong it is from have been in contact with an scammer from

Nigeria.And this Phonenumber is connected with Harry Anderson who is

repported here earlier and has also


When you are online on the internet,remeber always to have some

things in mind,if somebody asks for money it is an scam never send

money to anyone you dont know in person and never have met!!!

Never give any personal infos such Bankaccount numbers,adresses,telephone-

numbers ,others signs as if the person fells in love very quickly and talks

stories that is to good to be true it is offen like that also..

that is my advice to all on who is out there in the Internet...

Good that you spotted this scammer!!

Thanks for repporting this .

regards//Miss Marple//

2009-12-16, 09:23:07
ww from Japan  
@All girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrls !
Thank you !
Good job !

2009-12-21, 22:31:09
Linda from Indonesia  
hi.... Wan Wan & Miss Marple

How r u 2 doing there? sorry if i take a long time not visiting Delphi... It was very busy during Christmas season. ^_^

U know, eventhough there is nothing new in Delphi, it's always 'calls' me to visit. Well, besides to checking any related news, maybe im also can get to know the other friends in Delphi. ^_^

Hey, i have news from MArtines... hhahhaha....

He send me a text & at the ending of his text, he write others women name... ALEX!

According to my friend advise, i reply him & said, 'Hmmmm... I think I havent changed my name into Alex. I'm still Linda. Have a blessed day, Martines.'

It's funny, isn't it? In the minute i read this text, i can not stop smilling. He done a mistake that makes me more suspecting him. When im replied his text, then about 10minutes later he call me at ym.

We chat a while... Then i asked him did he get my text message... He answer yes... So, i said that u send to the wrong person, right? He not directly answer me. Then he said that it doesnt matter, cause i am his Alex. lol. I said its ok for him to find a new lady, its good, im happy for him. Then he reverse me by asking (sounds like a little bit accused) the same question, that i have a new guy. I said no. He replied 'good & always remember me, ok?' Im answer him 'of course i will remember u, my special friend from USA, California, Sunnyvale.' (the first result from his first email that shows his IP Address located). I do this cause i wants to know his respon.

When he got this sentence, he kept silence for along time & not reply my chat. Then i think i have to makes a situation that i was wrong typing, if i want to keep in thouch to know about his other hoax. In the minute i said that sorry for wrong typing cause i was talking to my friend about USA, California, Sunnyvale... he answer me right the way & said (another bit of accuse.. again...) that i am talking with my new male friend from USA.

I see the path that he also wants to makes me feel quilty cause im kind of ignore him... not as warmth like before & he also seems trying to blaim & accuse me for many times, didnt u think so?... for making me thinking that i am wrong(will feels quilty) to suspect him. Well, we'll see what is his next plan ^_*

@ 2009-12-15, 04:45:21
anonymous from Thailand

In the minutes i read ur report, im directly open this scammer account that u send (before Miss MArple post her message), the profile is has been deleted.

Good for u cause u not wasting ur time to this scam. ^_*

Right Miss Marple! To good to be truth. They r using a cheap flattery or taffy. ( I think so... :D)

Ur report is very helpfull! Tq, Nass!

2009-12-22, 12:39:44
wanwan from Japan  

Thank you for your report on Martines.
He is not sincere and innocent.
When I read your report ,I thought so.
It is the time to ignore him.
I hope you will find a new boy friend in the near future.
Martines gives you a bad influence.
You can not learn anything from him,
so I hope you will find other boy friends for you.

By the way ,
I guess you are not a Christian,,,,,right?
So I don't know it is good for me to say '' Merry Xmas '' to you,,,,.
If you are a Christian,'' Merry Xmas '',
but if not,,,,sorry !

I am very glad to see you here.
So if you have the time,
I hope you will come back and post your daily life reports.

see you later !
2009-12-27, 08:22:04
Linda from Indonesia  
@ Wan Wan

Tq for the xmas greeting... Yes... I am a christian... u will notice if u read all my report carefully... hehhehe...

Well, about him... im not often to chat with him anymore. Sometimes, he call me when i was OL, sometimes he send me text message on phone & offline message.

Tq for ur wish. I believe God is prepare the best man for me. ^_*

How bout u, my friend?

Can i chat at ym?


2009-12-27, 23:23:22   (updated: 2009-12-27, 23:34:53)
anonymous from United States  
Bottom line with men online:
- If he likes to chat tell him you will do it only with a web cam
- Ask a lot of questions and than google if tells you the truth( I question him since he couldn't give me his employer name or website)
- IP addresses do not lie.... Even if he changes computers it will still point to his location. I think for cops it is minutes to locate him by IP - we will have to find out. (google how to view e-mail details and than google to locate this ip - there are few websites that do it for free)
- Last clue - and the biggest one for me was the love talk and I love you said to someone who never met!!! Come on!
He didn't manage to get to ask me for money - I would tell him where is his family and friends and that I pity any man asking women for money - he must be small down there to ask women for help. :)
I didn't let it go anyway and I encourage all to go
and file a complaint. I would love to see this shit ass in jail. We single women have enough to go though and for me to run into him stopped mefrom wanting to try again.
I also notified my local police. I hate criminals!
Also, his number seems to be UK number - how did you find this number to be from Nigeria? Also, his IP addresses are confirming he is in CA, USA.
2009-12-28, 05:02:33
wanwan from Japan  
@^_^ Linda

how are you ?
I hope you had a wonderful Christmas.
I am very glad you are watching out for your Martines.
It is the best way for you to find a new love except Martines.

On Christmas,,,,
Did you enjoy '' Merry Christmas '' ?
I hope so.
From 12/22~12/26 I was SO busy(I had some holidays),,,,,,.
I told you about me.
Now I am building a very small Log house(not JOKE).
I want to have a coffee break with mama there.
That is the reason why I am trying to build a log house.
But I am NOT a ''Carpenter''.
Please imagine my carpenter ? work,,,,,,,LOL !
I bought many materials.
It is so heavy weight !
And now I have a serious sore back muscle,LOL !
Everyday I was working as Carpenter and I was so tired.
Many people enjoyed Merry Christmas but I was so tired that I had a good sleep,,,,LOL !
When I woke up ,Merry Christmas party was over,,,,,.

Linda,,,,you are already registered member of Delphi so you can come here and post your life,thoughts,
etc on Delphi.You can exchange with Marple here.For example,our Clark in Germany has posted many scam reports and he helps,supports many people.His reports are very useful to us ! And he finally has found a true love. I asked him to come to Delphi and to post his honey love reports on Delphi.Because it is a good news for us. His love story makes us feel so good,happy.
Linda,,,,even if you don't have any scam reports,it is not problem for us and you. I hope you will visit Delphi often and post your messages on Delphi.

See you soon,my Linda !
Mata-ne !

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2009-12-28, 05:53:41   (updated: 2009-12-28, 06:05:33)
Miss Marple from Sweden  
@2009-12-27, 23:23:22 (updated: 2009-12-27, 23:34:53)
anonymous from United States

Thanks for you oppinions in this but i will
anyway comment youre words also about this issue
when you are out there on the internet

1.You can never trust totally who you are talking
to even if you use webcam,the person can use
recorded videotapes many scammers use this
offen to confuse victims in this way,becuase
many scammers who are telling they are women
infact are men,so i would not trust this 100%

2.Ip nr is NOT an guarentee where youre computer
are ore the persons location is,of course the IP can lie,
using open proxy you can show that you are in China
instead of America,many scammers also use forged IP nr
So what you are telling here that the IP nr is never lying
is very wrong!!!'

I think who ever you are telling this things i think that
you must get more facts about scammers in general and also
how computers work out...never put postings here before you
know the real facts!! This is very dangerous for you if you
believe in this by youre self...
I have seen that you have posted this comment in
another thread as well,and i have posted this there also

I do strongly disagree to youre posting here
because this is confusings to victims
and if you have more oppinions about this issue
rather ask then put postings that can be dangerous to others!!

//Regards Miss Marple//
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2009-12-28, 07:22:38
Miss Marple from Sweden  
I hope you are good and had survived
christmas this year,and i hope you will also
have an good new year now that we will
have 2010 soon...


so you are the japan carpenter now...
please dont work to hard ..!!!
I hope you will be finnished soon
with youre coffe&tea house ...

see you mata-ne

2009-12-28, 09:16:00   (updated: 2009-12-28, 09:31:28)
wanwan from United States  
@2009-12-27, 23:23:22 (updated: 2009-12-27, 23:34:53)
anonymous from United States

Hey !
Now I live in Japan with an English Beagle.
I have chosen an open proxy and I have forged my sender IP address.
Here it is.
I live in Japan but now I can show you USA flag.
Please see it !
For scammers ,it is very easy to forge their sender Ip addresses.
Some of Nigerian scammers have the master degree of computer science.
They are experts in computer.
You must know that fact.

Also, his number seems to be UK number - how did you find this number to be from Nigeria? Also, his IP addresses are confirming he is in CA, USA.

On +4470xxxxxxx
Many times I have posted the reason about +4470xxxxxxx on Delphi.
Please read my posts about a scam call number +4470xxxxxx.

It is easy for scammers to forge webcam.
Our Fred in Germany has reported that trick.

Anon USA,,,,,I think it is better for you to learn the scam and tricks ,traps.
I am sorry your report is not useful to us,,,,,.

Thank you.

2009-12-28, 09:49:49
wanwan from Germany  
2009-12-28, 18:34:42
anonymous from United States  
Miss Marple,
I have acted on emotions and posted things that I thought would help me - not in desire to tell people something incorrect. I'm not sure why you need to be so mean - sounds like you are not a happy person yourself. It was all emotional for me to live though it and I would expect that other people on this form are not here to hurt others feelings - I guess was wrong.
Anyway, the IP address will depend on what provider is used and since they are using American based provider’s ip will most likely point to CA and most often not show computer ip. So, this info will not give you much. I have research this further.
I have not heard about taped webcam and now when I read it I think this is good thing to know.
Back to what helped me is to ask for details, something that you can confirm like he said he will be flying from to whatever city at whatever time and you can check those things online quickly etc.
I guess the best approach is to not trust anybody.
Have a happier day. :)
2009-12-28, 22:36:32
Linda from Indonesia  
2009-12-28, 18:34:42
anonymous from United States

Hi, Anon USA. Nice to have u as friend ^_^

Sorry if u r not comfortable of what Miss Marple posted for u. Im sure Miss Marple have no intention to hurt ur feelings. Miss Marple did that to keep the accurate info to help & support all victims & as a warning to all girl so they wont get scam. I can understand why Miss Marple so carefully react to all things that has been posted. Cause all the innocent people will learn from all info that has posted here to become their guidance.

Im understand that u also have a good intention to help others by giving any info that u know. We're very appreciate of what u've done. It will be more better to asking first, if we wants to post any info in Delphi, & we're not very sure about the accuracy. Im also did that.

Well, behalf of all things that happen... why not we all join as a team to co-orporate together, busted the scammers & helping other victims or warning to others by posting many scam reports & help supporting people who has become victims. But I think its good for us to standing in 1 vision & mission to make all that positive things happen ^_^.

Please forgive me if i said something that offend u. Sorry for that ^_^

Have a blessed day! Merry Xmas & Happy New Year for u, Anon from USA! ^_*
Love & hug, Linda

2009-12-28, 23:09:44
Linda from Indonesia  
@ Carpenter name Wan Wan from Japan (LOL)

Sorry to hear that u have a serious sore back muscle. I think this is my time to gave u a good massage... Will help u more better ^_* Hope u get well soon.

Hmmm.... kind of surprise to know that now u have a side job became a carpenter. Im thinking to have log house too. Can u help me to built that? LOL

We can use that log house become our headquarters to busted all scammers LOL

Im feeling good... im want to treat Martines as a friend, altough i knew that he is a liar ^_^ That makes me feel good & joy, treat him not as my friend, not my enemy.... Id like to learn his hoax pattern LOL. But of course, he will not allowed to know about Delphi. ^_*

By the way, i already saw the lady that he meant. Alex. She is beautiful. I told to Martines that Alex is a beautiful lady. Im happy for him. Im sincere.

He keep saying to remember him, u know. hahahha....

See u later, Wan Wan!
Ganbatte to carpenter! :D
Lots of love, Linda!

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