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I met this guy in And from his profile he sounds good then we exchange emails, but finally I found he never ask my questions in his email and only copy some love letters to me every time. And finally He asked for my address and phone number.

And below is his emails to me:
1st email

Hello ,
I'm very glad to read from you, it will be my pleasure to meet you in person soon, I believe in every relationship there most be a starting point, which make us to know each other.... and it's really my desire to know you very well and we become best friends. My name is Smith Anderson 39yrs old. I'm from a family of four, I'm Marine Engineer and I work with Marine Company here in London, I will tell you more about me and my family as time comes, yeah i have been japan, Malaysia and Thailand I love traveling because I'd like to get to know something new every minute, every second. I'm always ready for new emotions and feelings. I like adventures and I think our life would be boring without them. Also I love music, reading, relaxing, and movies. I love to spend my free time with my friends. I feel my life is very interesting. I try to make it interesting. I think that it depends on us..... I'm really into trying to appreciate what it is that I have in life. I am the happiest man when I know that what I do is the right thing for me, from my heart. I enjoy being mentally and physically active, I love doing almost anything outside. I like to be in the fresh air. I love to laugh and see humor all around me. I am a happy and fun loving person but I would like to find that special person to be able to share and to have fun with. I'm warm, sensitive person who is always open to new ideas. I'm romantic and love sunsets and candle during dinners, but you can't fully appreciate them unless you have the right person to share them with. I'm looking for a tender and emotional woman. She should care about me and feelings. I'm ready to share my life with such woman... I'm ready to be a serious husband and love my wife. Our life is a zebra; it has dark moments and light moments. When you are on a dark side you are unhappy and give up and when you are on the light side of your life you want to live and never die, because life is so good for you. I want to find a woman like you who will be near me during all times, when I am on the dark side or light side, it doesn't matter, and she will be always besides me, the same with me. I will be always with her, we will support each other and never let each other be sad or unhappy. Please, take good care of yourself and your job, eat very well, don't stress yourself too much, always find time to rest and be happy all the time.

2nd email

How was your day? I hope everything is well with you and your family. I'm very Excited to read from you. I want to tell you that this love dose not mater about your race, culture or religion. I hope with time we have to understanding each other, and i will plan to visit you in country for self introduction.

Dear, I was just thinking about us this morning and I decided to go on my computer to email you, in fact I really thought about lot of things concerning us and our previous conversation, before writing this email I really had a lot of things in my heart to tell you but it was quit unfortunate that when I got on my computer to write to you, I got lost of words and really don't know what to write or how to put my heart intention in write, but I will just try my best to explain.
I really don't know what has been going on with me since last night, I have been thinking so much about you all this while, all this may sound strange to you due to the fact that we have not met each other and we are just new to each other but I want to let you know that I really care about you,

I wish you can understand how I really feel right inside me, sometimes I use to think about the best way to let you know how I really feel about you, do you really know how it feels when something is right?, that is how I really feel about you, I feel that we are right and perfect for each other. I really hope that I could have the chance to make a way into your heart so as to let you know that I really care about you and to prove my love.

Love is a great gift and we cannot control it when it is real, I understand that it might seems to early to tell you all this but I have to let you know them, I really care about you and I am falling in love with you and this is true.
Please take good care of you and I hope we can talk again soon, Have a nice day.

3rd email

I read your mail with joy thank you, What more can a man says to the woman who opened her heart to him, allowing him to feel the warmth of her love across the great distance that separates them? You truly have no idea what I feel for you. I try to put this feeling into words, but fail miserably. This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both butterflies and a sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about. As the days continue to pass, my love for you continues to grow. I never thought I had the capacity to love anybody as much as I love you right now. Yet, my love for you continues to mature, growing beyond the realm of my heart. It seems that you have become the fiber of my soul, the very reason for my existence. I'm usually not the kind of person that would write a love letter, but I thought I’d do this for you because you are the most wonderful thing in my life right now. I know we're far apart but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much. I need you to know I am with you through everything, the bad and the good. I've given you my heart and I hope that you won't break it. Keep it and give it some loving from time to time. Remember when I promised you that I'd never let you down, that I’d never treat you bad, that I would share your joy and pain? I will promise all those things over and over again. I promised I'd be coming over to meet with you soon.
Love always,

4th email

I am every happy to read from you, I have a wonderful days because I take my time think more about you. Since day one we've shared something incredible, something that most people only dream of. I had been searching for you all of my life. You have made me the happiest I have ever been. You are sincere, caring, loving woman, and I wouldn't trade you for the world. I am so thankful and blessed that you loved me as much as I loved you, and that you made me your husband. We have not been met, and I have cherished every moment since the day we being started writing to each other. I love you more and more everyday. Thinking about our future fills me with anticipation and excitement. We make the perfect husband and wife team, and I cannot wait to make it happen so soon, and hopefully a baby boy one day. We are going to have an amazing life together raising a family. All of our dreams are coming true, baby! Our life together is already amazing, and together it will only get better and better. I will forever be grateful that you came into my life and made all my dreams come true. Together we're perfect, and I will enjoy enjoying spending the rest of my life with you. I love you more than words can say. Honey I had an emergency alert this week and I will be flying to Ireland My Company was awarded a contract by the Ireland government so I will be back in few weeks time. Last weekend I went for shopping with family members and i bought some presents (gift) for you i will send it to you today before travelling to Ireland. Note: give me your postal address and your contact phone number in your next reply, to enable me post it.
Forever Yours,

5th email

My love

I am doing good hope you are doing the same. Secretly you have taken each broken piece of my heart from all those before you and put it together like a puzzle. Our troubled times were those of which my heart was not put completely together, but once the last piece was placed, that was when I realized I can't live without you.

You are a great woman and I just can't imagine a day without you. When you are not here I see you, I smell you, I feel you, I miss you!!!

I lay awake at night, sometimes, and I cry 'cause I miss you so much. I know that we can't change the past, and I know that we can't predict the future, but my heart does not lie ... I am so in love with you. I met you few weeks on the Internet, and since that time, I have grown to love you so deeply. I have heard it said that online romances don't last, but I disagree.. I know that what we are doing may be considered wrong by some, but I also know what I feel in my heart, and I know that it's real.

Give me your postal address and your contact phone number in your next reply, to enable me post them, because no need keeping it here since i have made the purchase no need keeping it.

Love always,


I dont know why he asked for my post address but I am 100% sure he is a scammer!

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2009-12-28, 23:27:41
Linda from Indonesia  
@ Miss Marple

I hope you are good and had survived
christmas this year,and i hope you will also
have an good new year now that we will
have 2010 soon...

Merry Xmas & Happy New Year for u too, Miss Marple....

There is a lot of things that i need to learn from u ^_^

Hope to see u & Wan Wan someday! Or maybe someday u wants to visit Bali at Indonesia! I will visit Bali at 1th-5th Sept 2010. We can meet there. hehehehehe....

Wish all for a brighter future. ^_*

Hug & kiss

Linda ^,^

2009-12-29, 09:11:52
Miss Marple from Sweden  
@2009-12-28, 18:34:42
anonymous from United States

I do appologize if you dont feel comfortable with

what I said,my work is not to offend people and victims

here at all,but i cant keep my eyes shut for the reality

either,and not tell the thruth ore the facts about scammers

how they operate and how they scam innocent people out

of money in such cruelness and have no mercy either

in what ways they are doing it in it either..

I have seen victims at this site they have lost all hope of life

because they have felt so humiliated by these scammers..

becuase if they had known what they know today maybe they

have not fallen in to the scam and been abused...

The scammers have no mercy ore feel any empathy toward

the victims,regardless in what life situation the victim is living

under,the scammers do scam people even if they say to the

scammer ' I have no money to give,they can persuade the victim

to make things that they for example take loans from banks ore

friends to just help the scammer..this is horrible!!!

As i can see you are a victim in somehow,have you been scammed

out of money??I do hope that you have not been scammed in that

way,have you repported the scammer to this site,and who??

I know the police and the authorities do nothing to help victims

because they have no education ore no knowledge ore power

either to get to the scammers and theire criminal operations..

Thats for this site and other antiscam sites exists,becuase the only

way to stop and limit the scammers actions is to inform people how

the scammers abuse and steal money from people,and what methods

they also uses such as i have told you in my last posting,,,

If i can save only 1 person from been scammed,it warms in my heart

because i have might also saved that persons life by telling the world

about the methods what the scammers uses,and i will never stop talking

about it either,they are criminals and i have no mercy for them ....

and internet is an excellent way to inform people and to reduce the scammers

actions,please dont feel that i am mean to you,because if you knew what i know

and what i have seen you understand, this is only my way to save people out of

bee scammed and become victims...

And scams are not only directed to women,there is so many men also who is

abused by scammers,if you go to the pages with Russians scammers you understand.

When i entered this site once and saw the repports of all scams wich has been

made and realize how the scammers use peoples goodwill,it is just horrible

to see,and this sort of things happends becuase many people dont have

the knowledge in what way the scammers operates...

please ask if you wonder about things,that is our work here and we are only

volunteers and victims who fight against this cruel things...

And if you need support we are here at Delphi for you ,here is contributors

who gladly help and asists you ,,,

and do also registrate here becuase here is so many anonymous in this site

so we can distinguish you from others...and if you have information about the

scammer please repport it here,so others can know also about this scammer

and you can also save somebody from been scammed...

All best wishes //Miss Marple//

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2009-12-29, 19:46:50
Miss Marple from Sweden  

Thanks for youre support in this!!

Well Bali sounds very good in my ears when

we for the moment have very cold

and it is winter now here in Sweden...

Best wishes //Miss Marple//

2009-12-29, 21:29:55
Linda from Indonesia  
@ Miss Marple

Yes... we were like u to come here in Indonesia at Bali island. It is hot there cause have a lot of beaches hheheehe... Im also never go to Bali before. Do u believe me? lol cause that is the truth hehehhe...

Yes... the scammers is very cruel. I have a friend that been scammed. He lost about US$24,377.- Its shocked me when he told me, cause i notice something was wrong with him. He become so quite, looks mess up. He sold all of his photography equipment, macintosh, computer, which all of that stuff is his life & his business for his 2 kids.

When I heard about this, I am so regret cause if I know about this before, he would not have to deal with this scammer & lost his life. Thanks God he is became stronger now. He told me before, if he not a strong person, he would end his life cause he felt quilty for his kids future.

The scam way its like... 1child have a will that very big but not adult yet to have the money. Then the kids ask him to become the kid excetrice testamentair & have to transfer 10% of the will to makes all document & paper done. Cause the kid will gave him 20% of his will. (im not quite sure because im little bit forgot about the % & amount) :D

He realised something wrong when he already transfer the money & the day that the kid promise to call him is never show up until now... & that time he is like a crazy person that always call the number that the kid have gave him but not active anymore.

I ask him to share his stroy that he has scammed at Delphi, but he refuse cause he doesnt want anybody know about this & begging me not to tell anybody specially his ex wife (Im also know his ex wife). He is very shame about this thing can happen to him. He also had suspicion that his email or line also has hacked. (He is an IT)

Well, he is now life stronger & begin to built his life from this awful disaster. I kept contact with him. Give him support, ask about his day, encourage him to always have a positive thinking... I think this is what friend r for, right? He is from Indonesia, Bali island. Just know him through chat about 6-7months. & of course, Im also have to aware of everything lol.

Thats why in the last of my post before, I said I am very understand that u r have a good intention. We all need u to keep doing ur job ^_* We very appreciate all the things that u 've done. Bravo & salute for u V(^_^)V

OK. This is it for this time. I will gave new post later, have to go back to work again. hehehehe. I'll get my holiday tomorrow at 1pm after lunch time at 31dec09 - 03Jan10.

Wish all happy new year & have a blast achievement in 2010.

Ganbatte to all!



2009-12-29, 22:07:03
Miss Marple from Sweden  

I will give you an big THANK YOU!!!

And wellcome you to DELPHI ,we need you

here at Delphi is so many

anonymous voices who need help and support!!

I became sad and silent after you told youre friends

story US$24,377 omg!! Im really sorry about youre friend

And i give you my big respect also that you supported

this poor man,what a destiny,i dont even wish that cruel

destiny to nobody.....

The scams adds so many other problems not only the money

part in it self,the shame is so much bigger and the denial part

of it,can make an human become so devasted that to even go

on and try to live an normal and deascent life can be very hard.

There is victims who has made suicide because this things

and there is no support from the society at all because as i said

earlier there is no help for victims from any authorities...

He youre friend he was lucky to have youre support in this horrible

thing that had happend to him..

Im also glad to hear that he has come so far to have the will and the

power to try to live further even this so sad story...

so Linda im very glad to have you here at Delphi and also that you are

an woman ,this site need women who can support victims and especially

women who need support...and you have already seen the victims in the

real life also...

Please tell if youre friend changes his mind sometime in the future

he is wellcome to repport this scammer,he can be anonymous

but i understand him if he dont want to....

Thank you that you shared youre friends story in this way...

All best wishes //Miss Marple//
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2009-12-29, 22:18:14   (updated: 2009-12-29, 22:27:01)
coltkitt from United States  
@ Anyone whom knows more about navigating this site than me, eg; most delphians

I just stumbled, again, on another of delphifaq`s tools , the photo test, but my brain does not know which key, keys, icon, or prompt to tell my finger to press, click or punch to access it. Have some empathy and tell me what my finger should do, Please !! You can smile or laugh at my ignorance, I do, sometimes. Also, one of my equally ignorant brothers has already told me some unprintable things I could do with my finger. (smile)
Thank you all, Coltkitt.

Some comic relief:
A hunter was crossing a road one day when a frog called out to him and said, 'If you kiss me, I'll turn into a beautiful princess.' He bent over, picked up the frog and put it in his pocket.
The frog spoke up again and said, 'If you kiss me and turn me back into a beautiful Princess, I will stay with you for one week.'
The hunter took the frog out of his pocket, smiled at it and returned it to the pocket. The frog then cried out, 'If you kiss me and turn me back into a Princess, I'll stay with you and do anything you want.'
Again the hunter took the frog out, smiled at it and put it back into his pocket.
Finally the frog asked, 'What is it? I've told you I'm a beautiful Princess, that I'll stay with you for a week and do anything you want. Why won't you kiss me?'
The hunter said, 'Look, I'm a avid hunter and when I'm not hunting, I'm fishing, so I don't have time for girlfriends, but a talking frog is really cool!'

2009-12-30, 03:29:57   (updated: 2009-12-30, 03:32:28)
Agent 86 from Salem, United States  

Hi My Friend

No shame in not knowing ones way around the site. LOL

I pretty much learned the limited knowledge I have by making mistakes.

The picture search function is very easy to use otherwise I would
have never figured it out. LOL

It appears at the bottom of some pages below the Yellow box
to make postings with.

But that is not true all the time. LOL

To consistently find it go to the main listings page by hitting
[ Dating Scams (4056) ]
Then locate Picture search on that page.
Usually in the middle.

Click on it and hit Browse and it will open Your files and You
just select what file to You want to take it from.

Then select the photo You want in that file.
Click on it and hit open.

Then hit the search button and it will search the entire site for a match.

It will show You every match.

You then have a choice to post the picture or not.

I have compared many pictures that I did not post.

Be sure the photo is JPEG format as that is all the site will accept.
Hold Your cursor on a any photo and it should tell You if its JPEG
or BITMAP or something else.

Remember only JPEG will work on this site.

I hope I have helped You and have not confused You ?

Kind Regards and Happy New Year Agent 86 Maxwell Smart \\'^o^'// <><

Some photo's may not work here. LOL

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2009-12-30, 09:02:16
OJAS from United States  
As A86 says, don't feel bad about asking questions on navigation, or other workings of delphi.

We will try to help as much as we can. For a start, check the address of this thread:

When you see /about/ in the URL, this category was started /about/ the workings of delphi. On the left side of each category, are additional threads. Please take your time to read the general articles on all the threads within the /about/ category.

It is a continuous leaning experience for us all! including the Admin I must say, LOL! :-) For example he mistakenly thought an asterisk * appended to a word will search for that exact word, including the asterisk. Nope, a * at the beginning or in the middle is an ordinary search character. But at the end it means, search for the consecutive occurrence of the exact string preceding the *.

To illustrate this I posted somewhere, take an unusual / unlikely character string like smh, dailymail (one-word) etc., add an asterisk at the end, and search for smh* at the top left of this page, you get an interesting URL. Same with searching for dailymail*

Take your time, relax, ask questions. That's the ONLY way delphians become more efficient at helping others.

You and everyone else have a Happy New Year, and for scammers send a middle finger salute!
2009-12-31, 02:18:43
wanwan from Japan  
2010-01-03, 05:58:41
Linda from Indonesia  
To Wan Wan, Miss Marple & team at Delphi

I want to wish u all a happy new year. Hope this year, all things new in God!

Kiss & Hug



2010-01-03, 11:37:04
ww from Japan  
@^_^ !! Linda

Happy new year !
Enjoy your holidays in 2010?
I hope so.
I am building a very small Log house now.
So I am busy.
And I have read your messages ,thank you so much.
I want to visit your country in the future.
But it needs some money,,,,,.
It is the serious problem for me to earn money,LOL !
Your invitations sound so good,,,,,.
Again thanks so much !

And please listen to me.
Our Marple is in serious flu !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She can not eat full.
Only have a cup of herbal tea,,,,,.
I hope she will get a speedy recovery.


2010-01-05, 20:16:24
Linda from Indonesia  
@ Wan Wan

Yes.. Im enjoying my holiday. We were gathering to BBQ & cooking steam boat... yummy...

I think if ur Log House finish, u have to post the picture at Delphi. Im sure Miss Marple wants to see ur masterpiece LOL

I want to visit your country in the future.
But it needs some money,,,,,.
It is the serious problem for me to earn money,LOL !

aswell me too LOL

Our Marple is in serious flu !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She can not eat full.
Only have a cup of herbal tea,,,,,.

OMG! How can it happen? Is Miss Marple OK now? Hope she will get well soon! (^_^)v

@ Miss Marple

Even u can not eat, u have to forcing ur self to eat. That will makes ur body not drop & faint. Pls... this is serious! U must get well soon! We miss u at Delphi! v(^_*)v



2010-01-06, 00:07:31
anonymous from Sweden  

I hope you are good im better now ..but still recovering
im just resting in my house now for some days...
i had an disease wich is very common in Sweden during
wintertime a stomach flu..

that LOG HOUSE I want to also see is the very special agent

WanWan : We wants PROOFS here at DELPHI then!!!!...

Linda hope you are working little with my own thread also now


When you have the time look at the thread and there you have good links
wich are informative for you..and if you want to make some researches also
i would appreciate that...and you can also make postings on that thread to..

well have an scammer free day now LINDA..see you ...

Regards //MISS MARPLE//
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2010-01-06, 00:33:03
Miss Marple from Sweden  
10, 2009, 03:52:18 pm


Hi dear

it’s nice reading from you. It’s my pleasure to meet you here, believing our relationship for a good. And I will like to know you more well too.

My name is Smith Anderson 39yrs old. I'm from a family of four, I'm Marine Engineer and I work with Marine Company here in London, I will tell you more about me and my family as time comes.

I'm just simple and easy going Man.

Looking forward to read from you. contact me at my personal email at let get to know each other and plan to meet in person someday.



Found this one in a Thailand forum i guess the scammer is active
in this email

2010-01-06, 22:34:45
Linda from Indonesia  
@ Miss Marple

he is the very special agent LOG-HOUSE CARPENTER of JAPAN...

Wan Wan is a men? LOL I thought Wan Wan is a girl hahahhaha...

Thats why im always give kiss & hug to Wan Wan LOL

Then i guess i was wrong ^,^

Have a blessed day!


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